Change your story, change your life
We have dreams of becoming more than who or what we currently are. Be it to feel more love and joy or to express more love and joy, to the more physical aspects of becoming more wealthy. We all have this to some degree.
We try and study methods of attaining these dreams, i.e. law of attraction (The secret - Movie) or 'Psychology of achievement' etc. These are wonderful methods, but if they are applied incorrectly or partially it can cause frustration when the results are not apparent.
Then why, if we truly want something, we cant seem to get our head around attaining it? This is literally the problem, we cant get our head around it.
To start off, we should be able to envision our goal, our desired state, in our mind. However, we tend to think that is enough, thinking about our goal once a day or once a week, worse, once a month. This sporadic thinking about our goals do not put enough momentum behind your vision. We need to level up and envision it frequently.
This is where the change your story change your life comes in. You will notice that your general story you tell yourself in your head is in alignment with what you currently have.
Focus on the self worth part, you do not find yourself worthy enough to have what you dream off, otherwise you would have had it already. Self worth can be bad or good, Ego or spirit.
In most cases you will find that when you try and change your story you do not feel worthy of it.
I.e. a new job promotion. You are keen for it, then you see Billy is also applying for it, then you think, Billy is pretty good, i dont think i will get the promotion. To a life partner; that person is way to pretty/successful for me, they will not like me, and you never even approached the person. That person might have been looking for someone exactly like you. There is always an opportunity out there aligned specifically for you. Just trust the process and your self worth.
SO, changing your story. This takes time and effort, but is one of the lasting methods of goal attainment. It takes effort, but then again, it is worth it or else you would not have considering changing your life. your current plan is not going to get what you want, so change your story.
A method
Every morning, wright what your desired story should be and look like. Love at home, abundance wealth, health and happiness, whatever it might be, rite it down in detail.
Then visualize your story in your head, play scenarios that usually happen that get you negative, and change it to your desired outcome. Practice this while keeping your focus on the end goals in mind and your story will change.
Soon you will discover more facets of your story that you weren't aware of, and now you can change it as well. As you go along, your new story starts to replay in your head over and over, and when you catch yourself again, the new story is imprinted, the new you. You will make decisions from this place instead of the old way of doing things, and so your results will start to change.
Remember, your brain cant tell if you experienced something or vividly imagined it. So, make use of this super power, and create your desired life.
Change your story, change your life.
IF you need further assistance with changing your story, you are more than welcome to contact me.
Have a wonderful, blessed day.
To keep focused on the positive seens to be a constant problem. Thank you fir reminding me to stay focused, even when I am feeling down.
ReplyDeleteHi Unknown
DeleteI agree....it is a battle, if we continually remind ourselves we will get there.
It is definitely an ongoing effort that always pays off. Keep the focus and keep your mind on your desired outcome.
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Hi Francois....I was wondering when the next post was going to come up, I check daily.
ReplyDeleteReally encouraged by your posts and adds amazing value.
Starting with the little changes..makes all the difference.
Thank you Patmb for your kind words.
DeleteI will publish a new post every second day.