Making babies

The uniqueness of you started before the moment of conception.

We all have heard that the chance of us/You being here is one in a few billion. If we think about it in a holistic way, the ‘you’ can be different by just one hour.

If your parents waited one hour to conceive you, you could have been a different person.

The mental and emotional state your parents were in, largely determines the traits you will have in this world. Thus, determining how you will go through and perceive this world.

So, if your parents were in a great mood with no long-term stress then you will turn out a certain way. If, for example, in the next hour they receive really bad news of a severe illness in the family, they are building and holding on to that feeling/thought/emotion, that feeling/thought/emotion is largely transferred to the baby and/or process of conception.

Its more than just that. Its not just the sadness, but the way the parent feels about it, how they perceive the situation. If the parent feels helpless about it, the emotion that’s being transferred is that of helplessness towards love/a loved one. This might lead to you experiencing helpless situations towards family or loved ones n you life.

Same goes for stress.

It is important not to conceive children when the relationship is not on solid grounds and both parents want the same outcome. For example, if one parent wants a child because he/she doesn’t feel loved in life, and the other wants a child to feel superior too, then that child is not going to grow up optimally. The child will always be seeking love and approval.

The best way to conceive children is through love, to be stress free and to feel in control. To feel love for your partner and yourself, with no insecurities, to know you are loved completely by your partner and that you love your partner completely. To feel in love, the pure kind.

Now this is not always easy and a lot of relationships these days are a convenience, an agreement to stay together. You get along, it is not based on true love for the other person.

A lot of people confuse “love” and “being comfortable”. Getting along doesn’t mean you feel love or in love towards a person. It might feel numbing instead.

The best thing you can do for your children, is to be in love, not with your partner per se, but just IN LOVE.

 

Start today. It’s the best gift you can gif yourself and others.

 

Love and joy